Thursday, August 22, 2013

A Letter From Your Body...

After reading yesterday's blog, and linking over to read my RockStar's post (Dear Body) on her blog, The World's Greatest Trainer (aka Tabitha) wrote this wonderful response to RockStar from her body and gave me permission to post it here for you. I'll be honest with you and tell you I cried a bit when I read it, as there were some messages in there I needed to hear from my own body. Maybe you'll hear a message, too...


Dear Biggest Girl In The Ballroom,

This is your body.  I have heard your message loud and clear.  While your words sting and hurt, I can understand why you have spewed them forth.  Now it is my turn to spew forth words.  

First things first, I am on your side.  As you already know, change is difficult and that goes double for me. You have to understand that I can’t change on the outside until I get things in order on the inside.   Rest assured that with your continued hard work, I have begun to change.  Eventually the changes I am making in my deep innermost layers will start to migrate outwards for the entire world to witness.  Even though you can’t see them, they are there.  I am working to the best of my ability directly proportional to the work that you make me do and the fuel that you feed me to do it.   The main point is…what YOU do (workouts and eating) affects me, affects how I change and in turn affects the long term goal that you have set for the both of us.  I also dream of the day when we can reach that goal, but we have to do this together.  It is not you against me or vice versa.  We are a team!  We are inseparable!  Through good and bad, success and failure, triumph and struggle.  This pity party is over! It is time to move past it and start working together again.  With that in mind, here is what I need that will help me help you.  You ready?   Ok, let’s go: 

  1. I like to be pushed, and pushed hard!   - Every time we workout it has to be beyond our comfort zone.  We have to jump a little bit outside of our box every time.  For example, It is not enough to just complete 12 reps of an exercise.  If we are aiming for 12, get there and can keep going…we need to keep going.  Because if you can do 12 with good form then you can probably do 13….and so on…maybe up to 15, maybe to 18, maybe even to 22.5!  The point is we don’t just stop at a number we stop when we get to our limit and we cannot do even one more rep with good safe form.   Maybe we have to increase the weight.  You have the control to challenge me.  Do not step away from this challenge and do not be afraid of it.  It is what I really really need to push past the times when I feel like there is no reason to change.  Which brings me to my next tip.
  2. Change things up!  I am a very adaptable machine.  I thrive on adapting to stress.  Meaning, if you throw stress at me I am going to adapt to it so that the next time you apply the same stress I am going to be ready to handle it.  Let me give you a secret...if you continue to change things up and present new challenges I have to continue to adapt.  I have no choice.  I have to change to deal with that new stress.
  3. Don’t trust that stupid scale!  - I get such a bad rap because of that stupid machine.  It makes me look lazy and like I am not doing anything.  Don’t get on it.  Smash it.  Throw it out.  It does not tell even a FRACTION of the story of what is going on inside here.  You have heard the saying  “Don’t judge a book by it’s cover”?  Well, I have a new one for you “Don’t judge fitness journey by a number on a scale”.  You don’t know how much muscle I can or can’t build in a month.  If I have been inactive for a long time and there are muscles that I need to build to get those workouts done, you are darn tootin’ that I am going to build it! (1lb, 5lbs, 10lbs)  If I need it I need it!  And once that muscle is built it will work in both our favors to burn off more calories when we are NOT in the gym.  Instead, I want you to focus on how your clothes fit, measurements, personal bests, and photographs.  Why use one silly stinking number to tell a whole story when there are so many other resources to paint a clearer picture?  I am begging you to use them to our advantage.
  4. Clean eating, Challenge, Change, Consistency, Commitment – As you can see my favorite letter in the alphabet is the letter “C”.  I must have your word as your bond that you will adhere to all of these “C” words.  When you “Blip”, I “Blip”.   You admitted in your letter to me that you may not have been 100% committed to our journey together.   But, YOU have to be.  I need you to be.  WE need you to be.  OUR GOAL needs you to be.  If it helps, write these “C” words down and post them all over the place.  I mean EVERYWHERE!  Whenever you feel like you are going to stray off the path, try to remember just one of them and repeat it over and over to yourself.  Technically all you have to do is remember the letter “C”.  You have to make it your favorite letter too!  Our goals and our dreams depend on it. 

You have to remember that this journey is 90% mental!  You control me. I don’t control you.   Take ownership of that control and continue to do everything you can...EVERYTHING YOU CAN to leave NOTHING ON THE TABLE!  I believe in you and I hope that you still believe in me.  Together we are a team.  We have to stay that way.  Without you, I don’t exist, and without me, you don’t either.   I am here for you no matter what, and I will work with you as a team.  It is not going to be easy, nothing worthwhile ever is.  However, with your mind power and heart added to my physical power and ability we can move mountains!   WE have to believe that…our goal depends on it!

Love always,
Your Body


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